Commentary #121: What Is “Deferred Judgement?”

In my local community, we have our fair share of fascinating and interesting cases that emerge from our seven cities. Today, I want to talk about “deferred judgement” and how it applies to a man who has been diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder.

In September 2023, our local news stations reported that a 20-year-old man had been arrested for allegedly giving a 7-year-old girl an Apple AirTag hidden in a pack of stickers while he was working his cashier job at a Virginia Beach grocery store. The girl’s mother discovered the AirTag and threw it away before they went home. This incident occurred in mid-July 2023.

The man was fired from his job, and then there wasn’t a lot of other news until the end of March.

He pleaded guilty. The judge reviewed all the facts and decided to defer judgement until June 2024. The judge was able to do this because of a Virginia law that was passed in 2020.

SB133 “allows a court to defer and dismiss a criminal case where the defendant has been diagnosed with autism or an intellectual disability and the court finds by clear and convincing evidence that the criminal conduct was caused by or had a direct and substantial relationship to the person’s disorder or disability.”

Prior to 2020, the only similar remedy was for the defendant to plead insanity.

It turns out the woman in the grocery store wasn’t this man’s only victim. He had accidentally violated a restraining order that was taken out against him. He spent 12 hours in the Newport News City Jail. The victim in that case was a student at Christopher Newport University (CNU).

Both victims in court disagreed with the motion for a deferred judgement.

The defendant was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder in 2023. He’s been in weekly counseling sessions and supposedly made progress in group therapy, admitting that he now recognizes his action were creepy. In addition, “he also acknowledged that he may have caused his victims to have to seek out mental health care — just like he’d had to — and apologized.”

In addition to Autism Spectrum Disorder, a psychosexual evaluation identified impulse control and two sex-related disorders.

The intention for the deferred judgment is to give the defendant time, three months, to continue treatment and attend therapy.

The defendant is slated to appear in court again on June 24, 2024.

Resources

SB 133 Criminal cases; deferred disposition | Virginia’s Legislative Information System

Checkout crime: Wegman’s employee tried to hide tracker to track mother | WAVY

VB man with autism get deferred judgment after planting tracker in Wegman’s checkout | WAVY

Getting Personal #306: February Goals Recap

Welcome back!


Here were my goals for the month of February:

  1. Donate blood. — Accomplished!
  2. Finish formatting “Specialton.” — Accomplished!
  3. Publish at least two Book Reviews. — Accomplished!
  4. Celebrate Valentine’s Day! — Accomplished!
  5. Catalog at least 25 American Girl items in my inventory. — Did not accomplish yet.
  6. Participate in a P.E.O. membership panel. — Accomplished!
  7. Reorganize my office. — Semi-Achieved.
  8. Send donations to Trey’s Dolls. — Did not accomplish yet.

February and March were both a blur and a marathon.

I was able to donate blood for the first time in a year, nearly a year to the day, in early February.

I finally finished formatting “Specialton” on March 29th. This is a huge accomplishment for me. I thought it was going to take me a lot longer. It’s 99 chapters. I sent it to my social media manager and my editor. They are excited, and so am I.

Valentine’s Day was really sweet and special. I love spending as much time with Al as possible.

I’ve made a lot of progress with my office. I finally cleaned off and dusted my desk. I filled a kitchen garbage bag with stuff that needed to be thrown away months ago. I set up my mechanical keyboard that Al got me for Christmas! I have more things to do, but I’m really happy with the cleaning and organizing that I’ve done recently.

I published two Book Reviews! You can read them here:

I have two huge boxes to send to Trey’s Dolls, but I’m waiting for Vicki to return home before sending them.

Come back tomorrow to see my April Goals!


Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

Book Review #106: “The Night Swim”

This book was excellent!

As a true crime podcast junkie, the blurb was enticing to me right away. I loved that each chapter was dedicated to a different person. This book held my attention, especially because I read the majority of it while I was in the hospital after having Addy in October.

I look forward to reading more from Megan Goldin.

4 1/2 out of 5 stars.


Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

Book Review #105: “Meet Isabel and Nicki”

I was so excited when this book was announced!

This is an additional book in Isabel and Nicki’s world. Last year, Isabel and Nicki were the newest historical characters. They both had journals released with their dolls. I was able to get copies of both books. I reviewed both of them consecutively:

It was so great this book was partially a stand-alone, but also references the journals. You don’t have to read the journals in order to understand their world, though, which is great!

I loved following Isabel’s and Nicki’s journeys together. It’s the end of 1999. There are so many pop culture references and nostalgia, especially for someone like me who was so close to their age at the time. I love that American Girl has branched out further into the modern decades, although I certainly cringed when they called 1999 “historical” – Ouch!

I was a mix of Isabel and Nicki as a kid. I loved dressing up and all the bright colors, but I also enjoyed being outside, riding my bike, and roller blading.

I hope American Girl releases more books! I want to see more of Isabel and Nicki after 1999!

4 1/2 out of 5 stars.


Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

Getting Personal #305: February Goals

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Welcome back!


Here are my goals for the month of February:

  1. Donate blood.
  2. Finish formatting “Specialton.”
  3. Publish at least two Book Reviews.
  4. Celebrate Valentine’s Day!
  5. Catalog at least 25 American Girl items in my inventory.
  6. Participate in a P.E.O. membership panel.
  7. Reorganize my office.
  8. Send donations to Trey’s Dolls.

What about you? Do you have any goals for this month?


Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

Getting Personal #304: December Goals Recap

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Welcome back!

Here were my goals for the month of December:

  1. Continue incorporating my editor’s suggested edits into a more polished draft of “Specialton.” — Semi-Achieved.
  2. Prepare to market, promote, and publish “Specialton.” — Semi-Achieved.
  3. Publish at least one Book Review. — Did not accomplish yet.
  4. Celebrate Christmas! — Accomplished!
  5. Continue working on my American Girl inventory. — Semi-Achieved.
  6. Schedule regular blog posts. — Did not accomplish yet.
  7. Reconcile my thoughts about NaNoWriMo. — Accomplished!

I decided to push back the release of “Specialton.” I’ve made a lot of progress with the suggested edits and formatting, but I’m not ready to release it yet. Making this decision was tough, but I immediately felt better afterward, which tells me it was good decision.

We had a nice, quiet Christmas. We loved being with our parents and celebrating Addy’s first Christmas.

I’ve decided on the format that I want for my American Girl inventory in Excel. I just need to dive in and execute the plan.

I reconciled my thoughts about NaNoWriMo in a recent post. This was a hard one to write. You can read it here: Commentary #120: Thoughts on NaNoWriMo

Come back tomorrow to see my goals for February!


Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

Commentary #120: Thoughts on NaNoWriMo

I decided to not participate in NaNoWriMo 2023, mainly because I thought I would be at the last month of my pregnancy and I wanted to make sure I was getting enough rest.

Turns out there was something else going on.

My friend Ren shared the news with me first. I was initially shocked and dismayed. And then I started doing my own research.

Full disclosure: Many things I’m going to discuss are allegations. No names have been brought forward, and I’m not sure they ever will be.


In the beginning, I also couldn’t find a lot of information online about this alleged incident. But as the months have passed, a clearer picture has emerged. I’ve listed my resources below, including information from NaNoWriMo.

Regardless, the research that I have done has solidified one decision: I don’t want to participate with NaNoWriMo going forward. The way the NaNoWriMo staff handled this incident, whether it’s true or not, was atrocious. Good for the people who stepped up and raised red flags and reported the incident(s). NaNoWriMo’s initial response to the entire thing was, in a word, odd, and I can’t tell if that was on purpose or not. I’ve studied some public relations, and I have a bachelor’s degree in Communication Studies Mass Media.

I’m honestly surprised this didn’t make the national news in November, especially because the allegations include a moderator grooming an undisclosed number of minors in the NaNoWriMo forums and Young Writer’s Program.

I fully understand that NaNoWriMo is a nonprofit, and they have a small staff. However, they are so well known among writers and get so much attention throughout the year for their Camp NaNoWriMo and NaNoWriMo sessions, so color me surprised when there wasn’t a lot of information or media coverage.

I think they tried to save face because they screwed up.

The good news, if anything, is that they did acknowledge, eventually, that there were multiple failings with this particular incident. From what I’ve read, they have already made multiple changes to the organization, including staffing. They say they are committed to further changes and are actively learning from this experience. It doesn’t excuse their initial response and handling, however.


Going forward, I won’t be supporting NaNoWriMo. I’ll track my progress on my novels independently.

In a way, this makes me sad. NaNoWriMo had been a big part of my life for the better part of 11 years. But, I’m thankful to Ren for sharing the initial information with me several months ago. It’s taken me this long to reconcile all of my thoughts and feelings about this.


Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂


Resources

https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/events/nanowrimo-grooming-controversy

https://christianwriters.com/threads/accusations-of-child-grooming-overshadow-nanowrimo.24933/

https://forums.nanowrimo.org/t/message-from-nanowrimo-board-january-2024-update-to-the-community/590363

https://forums.nanowrimo.org/t/board-response-to-complaints-about-forum-safety-and-the-safety-of-minors/580358

https://www.ashardin.com/blog/nanowrimo-board-of-directors-step-in-after-child-grooming-alligations-against-staff#/

Getting Personal #303: My Favorite Things of 2023

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Books

Isabel’s Journal

Jim Henson: The Biography

Nicki’s Journal

The Night Swim


Movies

Ant-Man & The Wasp: Quantumania (Seen in theaters, February 2023)

Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret. (Seen in theaters, May 2023)

Barbie (Seen in theaters, July 2023)

Dungeons & Dragons: Honor Among Thieves

Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 3 (Seen in theaters, May 2023)

Haunted Mansion [2023] (Disney+)

Indiana Jones and the Dial of Destiny (Seen in theaters, July 2023)

Jesus Revolution (Seen in theaters, March 2023)

Mission: Impossible – Dead Reckoning Part One (Seen in theaters, July 2023)

Murder Mystery 2 (Netflix)

No Hard Feelings (Netflix)

Pete’s Dragon [1977] (Disney+)

Pete’s Dragon [2016] (Disney+)

Remember The Titans (Disney+)

Spider-Man: Across The Spider-Verse (Seen in theaters, June 2023)

The Beanie Bubble (Apple TV+)

The Marvels (Seen in theaters, November 2023)

The Super Mario Bros. Movie (Peacock)

We Have A Ghost (Netflix)


TV

Babylon 5 (Tubi)

Bake Squad (Netflix)

Cold Case (Seasons 1-7, Max)

Doogie Howser, M.D. (Seasons 1-4, Disney+)

Family Matters (Max)

Finding Your Roots (PBS)

For All Mankind (Seasons 3-4, Apple TV+)

Glow Up: Britain’s Next Make-Up Star (Season 5, Netflix)

Guy’s Grocery Games (Max)

Killer Sally (Netflix)

LEGO Masters (Seasons 3-4, Hulu)

Love Has Won: The Cult of Mother God (Max)

Next in Fashion (Netflix)

Only Murders in the Building (Season 3, Hulu)

Poker Face (Peacock)

Pressure Cooker (Netflix)

Secret Chef (Hulu)

The Afterparty (Season 2, Apple TV+)

The Mandalorian (Season 3, Disney+)

Unsolved Mysteries (Hulu)

Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego? (YouTube)

Where in Time is Carmen Sandiego? (YouTube)


Podcasts

48 Hours

Cold Cases

Criminal

Dateline NBC

Disappearances

Embedded

Mind Over Murder

Serial Killers

Small Town Dicks

Snapped

Solved Murders: True Crime Mysteries

StoryCorps

Unsolved Murders

Unsolved Mysteries

Up and Vanished


Well, that wraps up my favorite things for 2023!

What about you? What were some of your favorite things of the year?


Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂

Getting Personal #302: December Goals

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Welcome back!

I’ve been away from the blog for several months. One major reason is that I found out I was pregnant at the end of March! We found out we were having a girl during Memorial Day weekend. Her original due date was December 4th, but I had some complications due to preeclampsia, so our baby girl officially arrived on October 22nd. She needed some time in the NICU, but she’s home now and doing well! We have enjoyed loving on her and taking care of her. Being a mom is the hardest thing I have ever done, but it’s totally worth it. She’s small but feisty.

Thanks to everyone who continued to read my posts during my months-long absence. I’m excited to be back!


Here are my goals for the month of December:

  1. Continue incorporating my editor’s suggested edits into a more polished draft of “Specialton.”
  2. Prepare to market, promote, and publish “Specialton.”
  3. Publish at least one Book Review.
  4. Celebrate Christmas!
  5. Continue working on my American Girl inventory.
  6. Schedule regular blog posts.
  7. Reconcile my thoughts about NaNoWriMo.

What about you? Do you have any goals for this month?


Until the next headline, Laura Beth 🙂